Thanks Nina, I like your reply...... I know some people in my family used words like that without thinking (and never about me, I was the black sheep).......but I agree, we are all special, unique, and we ALL have good and bad in us! Sometimes it takes a real friend to discover who we really are and the good inside us......and the good thing is we are ALL constantly changing, whether slow or fast, whether obvious to others or not, its a fact! And WE choose whether to change for the better, and whether to focus on the good or the dark side of life....and of other people. And we choose whether to see others in shades of black and white... or to see the grey in everyone

Thanks hon ((((((((((((((( Nina ))))))))))))))))