You can point out to him your concern and that you think he has a problem but it is up to him to do something about it. If he decides to something then you can help him. If you nag him all the time he will push you away. Even if he says....yeah your right, I am going to quit. And then doesn't you will be disappointed. Us alcoholics often tell people what they want to hear to get them off our backs for awhile with no intention of changing.
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The "paradox" is only a conflict between reality and your feeling of what reality "ought to be." -- Richard Feynman
Major Depressive Disorder
Anxiety Disorder with some paranoid delusions thrown in for fun.
Recovering Alcoholic and Addict
Possibly on low end of bi polar spectrum...trying to decide.
Male, 50
Fetzima 80mg
Lamictal 100mg
Remeron 30mg for sleep
Klonopin .5mg twice a day, cutting this back
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