Thank you, Alison! I have to say, your advices WILL be taken! You should rest assured knowing that!

I think ALL parents care, but in their own ways. Yours and mine have their own ways. Like you said, it could be the way they were raised, or the the experiences they have from the outside world. I keep thinking that at some point I don't want to argue because I love them so very much, I don't want to hurt them just so that I could feel better, because my voice could get a bit higher than usual when I'm trying to prove something, and that's energy, not anger.

Like you mentioned, an explanation and evidence will come in handy, but again, this will take some practice in lowering my voice to the people who endured me as a baby, I woke them up at night, and they kept me in for 21 years, I SHOULD NOT and WILL NOT bother them much more than I already did, but my situation still hurts my brain and does happen often, but I will try to end it once and for all in tying different ways in delivering a point without any frustration involved.

Thanks again! You are helping me, even though you are not getting something in return, that is just valuable! Be proud of yourself!