Too funny -- my life as a soap opera, with constant intrigue.

I just heard back from my friend - I'd forwarded a copy of my response. Now a lot of what she said has become clear. She is including restructuring this position as part of a larger proposal she's making in two months. I bet that's why she told me to turn down anything full time. I can also see now why she was discouraging me from issuing a flat out no. Ha ha, I hope this is all vague enough that no one ever recognizes themselves.