Hey RenouncedTroglodyte,
many thanks for the message, and "just" the opportunity to
try to help is getting something back!!
So just remember, if I'm off target anywhere, just come straight back at me and let me know (no-one's perfect!!

) and I'll give things a rethink. You deserve help!!!

And
you should feel proud of
yourself for getting on here and reaching out for help!!

Alison