I get it. I would just like to be able to go grocery shopping and be able to smile at a stranger without being practically harassed and made to feel uncomfortable after I turn them down for asking to take me on a date. If a woman is interested in a man, she will make it very obvious, we aren't mysterious creatures like guys seem to think we are. I should be able to smile at random people without someone saying, "Aye girl can I getcho number? Aww why not? Aww you're just playin' hard to get, where's your boyfriend? I don't see him, naw haha naw."
I was once literally followed out of the mall to my car by a man who couldn't take a hint.