I'm trying to keep myself busy by working out and planning activities. But the weather sucks now, its freezing cold so I cant spend too much time outdoors, I end up coming home and laying in bed with him on the brain. My friends are mainly married with kids or don't go out much. I know I need to find new people to spend time with or join a group. I know all the things to do, I can give everyone else advice but I don't always take my own advice.