The most discomfort for me is interactions with the opposite sex- both platonic and romantic. I've never been on a date....avoid, avoid, avoid. I've had crushes and been crushed on but never simultaneously. I don't know where this intense shyness of guys came from. I've never been hurt or abused, I had a fairly healthy childhood. I don't have a lot of self confidence but I have a lot of self worth, if that makes sense. Just a misfit I guess.