I do agree. It's always more productive to work things out if you have a problem with a person...just take them aside and ask them if they would like to talk, then start working the problem out.

There is no reason to lie, or lie by omitting...I find it rude and hurtful to do so. If you have a problem with how I am behaving, tell me discretely and I'll be glad to listen and help correct anything that I may be doing that you find offensive.

Of course, I've been known to not listen, and need to work on that. My emotions are very strong and my mind can't harness them sometimes...