I am so sorry. At this point I would take charge and tell him in written or on the phone that you are done . That would give u a sense of power over the situation. If he would want to figure this out and explain good but if not at least u the one making a decision . It's been long enough and if he is unwilling to explain he is not right for u. Look up groups on meetup and join them, I am struggling with the same situation as you and I understand that sometimes people withdraw but this situation is bad news. Hugs to u

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