It's funny! As a perfectionist "but" it's my second name.
You can give me the compliment you want, I will say: yeah, but...

GreenMoss: i always found very difficult to deal with members of the oppossite sex. I don't know if this could be your case but in mine, a distant father who is suppoused to play the role for you to related in a good way with the outside and a Catholic moral and Education did their role.