Hi Hopeless, maybe the fact that neither of your kids have said anything says just as much about how much they did/do actually care. I'm guessing that they found it really scary and painful when they knew you had cancer?? So maybe it's something they've desperately tried to put "behind them"??? Tried to put out of their lives???
Of course I don't know about your partner, perhaps you could ask him/her.........but do you think that maybe a reason for your kids not saying anything???
But you can still feel good about the one year, with or without anybody else's acknowledgement, hey??
And the last six months..........I'm sorry they haven't gone well, if you want to talk about them (or anything else!!) then here is definitely a good place for support.

Alison