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Originally Posted by Bill3
I'm wondering what you mean by strong when you say strong woman.
Also, in what way would the match be perfect? Which i guess is another way of asking what you (or the woman in the article who was successful in her career) are envisioning as a perfect relationship.
You are encouraging him to work on assertiveness and self-esteem. If he is successful, and he becomes more assertive and develops greater self-esteem, then the relationship presumably will no longer be between a strong woman and a MWLSE. What would that mean for you?
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How I view a strong woman is someone who strives to become a better person and is willing to take risks when she knows that they aren't too dangerous. Someone who knows her boundaries in life and knows she isn't perfect.
Yes, I was wondering the same thing actually on what this lady in the article had meant too.
Though my envision of a perfect couple are two people working together to become better people; being supportive to one another. Also being compatible is a great match. If he wouldn't choose to help himself I wouldn't be dating him, plus I know he isn't completely low on himself. After I had posted this I did feel like I was labeling him.
I want to see him to become a stronger person and don't see a problem with him becoming more assertive. He's already opened up quiet a bit to me too.