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Originally Posted by kaliope
i am sorry that you are experiencing so much anxiety. it seems she really still cares about you that she came back so that you didnt have to be alone. unfortunately this doesnt do much for you in the long run. as a woman, i do not imagine that her insides match her outsides. i imagine this was a very difficult decision for her. when a partner does not get a job, and it is a womans sole responsibility to support the family for so long, she becomes resentful. i imagine she finally reached her breaking point. and then stating that you could get one in a few days is hurtful because if it was that easy, what prevented getting a job all along? again, this is unfortunate, but it seems that you have learned a lot from this experience. take care.  |
Actually she didn't have a job either. She insisted that if I didn't get a job that she would move in with her parents. Also, she did really support us at any time. This place isn't anything like where I'm from and as a result I had no idea the best locations for jobs and what not. Though if she had given me the chance, I would have bugged people like crazy until they gave me a job just to shut me up.
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Originally Posted by Nature1968
I would say stick it out you said you might have a job in a few days , so take the job and prove to her that you can support her and the kids .
If you pack up and leave then your giving up ..
If you stayed and got the job and she sees you have a job she will come back .
She is testing you to see if you will change and get a job .
U will regret if you give up , there is still hope
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I wish that were true, but she made it clear that if I wasn't gone by weeks end that she would move in with her parents. Anytime I tried to bring up the subject she immediately threatened to leave me alone again. I wasn't willing to risk that pain again. Now, I'm grabbing what I can and will be leaving tonight when my sister gets here. It feels like this whole section of my life was for nothing. I was given candy so that I could feel the pain of it being taken away.