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Originally Posted by Bill3
How do you know that she sees you as just some annoyance? I gather that you are a student. Maybe she simply wants to maintain appropriate boundaries between faculty and students. That would involve resisting any student who wishes merely to say hi, and it would involve avoiding a mentoring relationship with any student who has a crush on her.
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Yes I was a college student. Well first off she told me I should stop by in an email after her class ended last year. Also I don't see why saying he would be overstepping boundaries. If she can't even bother to let me stop by just to say hi, or even respond telling me my request was inappropriate, then I can only conclude that I am a worthless annoyance to her. As for maintaining professional relationships, well... she is dating one of her former graduate students. Not saying that is any reason to ignore proper respect for professional boundaries, but as for her being one to maintain them, well it's hard to really take them as concrete.