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Originally Posted by Artchic528
No, you weren't. I'm just frustrated and as a result, it can be frustrating to help me. I appreciate the help, it was very thoughtful of you.
I'm probably going to have to accept that socializing, let alone a relationship, just aren't in the cards for me. Maybe someday the cards will allow me to have someone to socialize with.....hang out with....be friends with.....
Going to be hard though, as human beings like me are a social species...so battling inate desires to be among others is going to be tough. Maybe I can just.....be a hermit or something and go live somewhere where I can't be tempted to socialize? Okay, now I'm just being silly.....
But yeah, socializing isn't happening for me now.
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what if you go somewhere with your family member, like you live with your mom and she drives can you guys go somewhere together?
like if you like to volunteer. i volunteer in a homeless shelter occasionally. i am not saying you go meet men there LOL but not only you help others but you get to talk to people who work there.
i had no one to spend New year Eve with (just broke up with someone and my family gets on my nerves lately), so i went to homeless shelter and actually not only helped in the kitchen but socialized with a cook and other workers and chatted with folks who came to soup kitchen to eat. i actually not only felt useful but had a good time.
ask your mom to go with you if she drives.