Do you think you could show you post to your T so you two could talk about it? Even just the last pararaph. I know that mine is good at calming my concerns when I raise them.

My concern is that when I say those words, she'll think it wasn't that bad and wonder what I've been so darn upset about. I tend to compare myself to others and minimize my own pain because I know what I went through was nothing in comparison to what others have had to bear.

I guess I need to follow my own advice, huh?