I have thought about afixing a video to my forehead many times so I can show my T how my husband can go from being so nice and then slipping into what I refer to as Mr. Hyde.
I often wondered how he would react if he was able to see how bad he can get too because it really is like he does this switch and doesn't realize how bad it really is.
I used to try to think ahead even because I have found that whenever a question takes place and I come up with an answer, his response is always the opposite. In my thinking ahead I would think about my response then to avoid the challenge would speak out the opposite. Well, what I discovered is that often simply doesn't work because what is really taking place is that he will simply respond "opposite" no matter what I come out with. It is disagreeing no matter what quite often, especially when he is in that Mr. Hyde mindset.
The truth is that some people will talk over you, interupt you and take over no matter what, it is part of their makeup somehow, which is what I have been learning about the way my husband is with his two learning disabilities.
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