I wish I had access to this type of advice, insight and support when I needed it.


If I did, I would have left my ex MUCH sooner than I had.


Instead I didn't know any better and kept waiting for him to behave better, kept trying to change my behavior, hoping it would appease him and thus improve his behavior.


All it got me was wasted years of my life and time, 2 blue eyes, bruised ribs, an angry fatherless daughter and a shitloada trust issues to work thru.