Hi RenouncedTroglodyte, you're welcome!!!
And.........."See? I'm too stupid to not know that by myself, I need someone to tell me"..........
Oh, I'm sure you knew that , it's more your self esteem probably drowned out/blocked out that possibility. And sometimes when we're feeling really bad about ourselves we need someone to point out/remind us of those sorts of things..........doesn't make you stupid at all, just means you need a little help with what you're going through, and nothing at all wrong with that.
And your appearance...........well you know anyone who discriminates against you based on your appearance isn't worth your attention, right??!!! You shouldn't be wanting their approval or acceptance if they are that shallow.
And girls..........well they're going to find all different types of looks attractive, different people go for different appearances............
Do you think it might help starting on building your self esteem/confidence up a bit first though?? Then leading to just casually chatting..........letting people (inc. girls) seeing the real/whole you??? It might take time to get to there, but maybe a better starting point???

Alison