This confuses or perplexes me. I think my t needs to be aware of what i missed, and provide it to my inner child. But its more like there are 4 people in the room: t the person, t the professional, then me the needy client, and me the aspiring adult. I dont see 4 people with you and mme t - its like your needy client is talking to her person - those two should never meet!! Okay, im exaggerating - but they are not a good match.