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I think I'm going to briefly tell her that I don't like how I reacted, and wish I'd just been supportive, that I love her and believe she deserves all the happiness in the world, and that I am confident she can make the best decisions for herself.
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That sounds good to me.
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If you were in this position, would you think it healthy to name the vulnerable feelings that got kicked up? Or would you just apologize and say " My behavior was about me and my unhealthy issues/anxieties, not about you." and leave it at that? We are so close that I lean toward being more self disclosing, but I'm uncertain.
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I would first leave it at that, but be attentive to her reaction. If she shows unusual concern/interest, consider saying say more. If not, not.