((((sideblinded))))

I've never wanted anyone to have to worry about me. Perhaps I was a little unusual in writing a will by age 16 (even though I had nothing, really). My point is that I can understand how difficult it can be at times to get thoughts of the End out of one's mind.

Friends really don't have to step in for you, unless you leave instructions to do so in your Will. Personally, I would much rather have what few friends I have deciding where my things should go. I've told everyone that I want to be cremated ~ don't bury me & take up space! I've also written a half-arse Will explaining who should benefit from my ___. Let ___ go to ___ charities.

That has relieved a lot of stress for me. I never worry about it at all anymore, as a matter of fact. Very best wishes to you!