Why the sudden 180 degree turn around ? Why are you now doing all the things that he nagged about during your time together? Are you trying to impress him? Show him that you never needed his prodding? He may be simply baffled by your change in attitude.

Perhaps he is afraid that if you do make up, you will both revert back to your old roles.

You tried to make it work in november and he balked. You may have to accept that reconciliation is not in the cards. He may just be being polite.

Until you deal with the real issue of why you broke up- lack of effective communication- i would put a reunion on the back burner.