Hello, I have never posted in ehre before. I had a very bad experience with a mental health professional again! I finished my sessions Feb 2014 and couldn't been happier. The problem was the ex-therapist and I were always fighting as she always had to use her mommy-dearest attitude and her marital arrogance to "prove her point." She was only a few years older than me (me almost 29 and her in her 30s) yet the woman lacked a lot of things about life that I could.

She said a lot of upsetting comments and took zero responsibility for anything she said! I was so upset with her in July 2013 that it took me 2 weeks to calm down I was so enraged by her ridiculous comments. Anyway, I learned nothing from her only one thing breathing exercises. Fast forward: I am looking to go back to therapy, sex therapy because I had a revelation about what happen at age 13. I knew about being sexually abused by a stranger, but I never really dealt with it or I thought I did deal with it my own way.

I have contacted some of them and they all don't take insurance of any kind. Their rates are high way out of my budget! I would like to talk to them but I am still bitter about what happen with my ex-therapist - I have seen a high school counselor and college counselor all treated me like ****! My ex-therapist had no tact refused to refer to me to the correct person who could help me she was a big time waster regretted seeing her for 16 mos!

I don't want to be dependent on therapy, but god I've been in such a stuck mindset since I was a kid I am always bothering someone to "help me solve my problems." This sexual abuse is bothering me now after stuffing it for so long. If I see a therapist, I told a couple I want str8 up answers no bs let's work together and solve my problem or me solving my own problem. I don't wanna see a therapist covered by my state insurance using the typical boring approach how does that make you feel and what could you have done differently. Like I am suppose to have a crystal ball everywhere I go and change the situation when I please!

Anyone advice on knowing when your ready to find a better therapist?