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Originally Posted by ptangptang
Ok so you had a clue when you first met him that he wasn't particularly tactile. You obviously have different levels of sex drive. You want it every day . He thinks that everyday is too much and it's getting to be a bit of a chore and he is feeling pressured. That's the impression i get. And for a lot of couples great sex EVERY day would be unsustainable...
I don't think it's fair for you to expect great orgasmic sex every day from a man whose sex drive isn't the same as yours. And he is more than 10 years older than you. So cut him some slack ( so to speak).
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Oh no, you've got it all wrong-- it's him with the high sex drive. Him who wants everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, and sometimes multiple times in a row. There's no way I could orgasm as much as he does, and I don't even try and I'm fine with that. I don't need oral to orgasm and I can orgasm every day, or every other day.
He's unusual, because his sex drive and stamina are pretty high. He doesn't pressure me though.
I don't care about great sex every day. I don't care about great variety. I just want him to make an effort to be oral with me sometimes (and not nearly as much as I am to him, as he has more drive and stamina). I can't understand what his issue is. But I don't think it's fair. It's not a central relationship issue, but it is hurtful after several years now of this and I would like it to improve.