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Old Sep 02, 2004, 11:10 PM
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{{{{{{{{Wendy}}}}}}}}}

I've been waiting so long for this day to see him again, and now he's doing all this other stuff. Forcing me to attend therapy and creating rules that I must adhere to, will not help me at all, only build resentment.

Some of the rules are understandable and I agree. Like one was no more disruption in his waiting area. I cut myself out there once and it caused a commotion and a mess. Keeping all my appts or a 24 hour notice is also an understandable rule.

As for my h, I have been an ATM machine for at least 6 years now - it's less stressful for Alex & ultimately myself. It's not by choice, believe me.

Courage is fear that has said its prayers.
Dorothy Bernard