Hello,

I would like to post a question:"When You cherish someone close to You and You try to help him, because You dont want to see him suffer. How do You achieve trully altruistic attitude - meaning You do it only for that person!?"

Ok, so there is a person. You have strong feelings for this person, You have close relationship and You would like this person to be in peaceful state, happy state.
You try to help this person. You bear in mind only the tought of this person, smiling and at peace - innerly.
I was wondering, how could I ask myself good questions to find out, if I am doing it for my good feelings or if I am doing for the person I love?

Thank You