If you read on here you will see a lot of single men and woman are having a hard time finding "The One " .

I don't know how old your kids are but I would be very careful who you bring home to as you want to protect your kids . so you have to be extra careful and maybe even do a background check , kids always come first .

I would maybe get involved in some kind of activity that you enjoy as a hobby and you might meet someone there , but take it slow .
If it's meant to be no need to rush into it .

If you enjoy walking find a group that gets together once a week for a walk and meet people there .