Seeking Peace, I have been to that site. I know these therapists could use another approach on feelings. Sexual abuse is still controlling me which is why I have painful sex. Gyno told me to do the poor man's method of using tampons starting with the smallest since it's similar to a dialator and that's a cheap method I can use. Yea, there are options I don't have the money for a sex therapist at all. I just want str8 forward answers which is something my ex-therapist couldn't do because she was too busy trying to be mom guru!