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Old Jan 11, 2015, 09:03 PM
ladytiger ladytiger is offline
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Originally Posted by Favorite Jeans View Post
Your vaginismus may or may not be related to your history of sexual abuse. Lots of people have one without the other. There's a pretty good book about it you can find by googling. You can work on the therapeutic techniques for overcoming vaginismus without a sex therapist as others have mentioned. Also there a physicians who specialize in sexual medicine who might be covered by your insurance.
Long ago, I was seeking a book but wasn't sure which book would be good. Do you know of any or can give me a hint? I am not sure I mean I have done a lot of talking and talking when I saw my ex-therapist on abuse, emotionally abuse. I also told my boyfriend about how my dad is a pedophile and how he molested my mom's 1st born daughter who isn't his repeatedly, now how am I suppose to deal with that? She did absolutely nothing called her a ***** and a liar.I found this out a couple years ago and he looks at young/teen girls yet I am still at home trying to fight my way out. He also walked in on me in the bathroom a lot and when I was in the shower a few months ago! I feel like a basket case not knowing how to solve my own probs if I wasn't so codependent, this wouldn't be an issue. Past is still keeping me stuck which isn't helping and hard to try to live in the present and move forward. The therapists I was speaking to told me sexual medicine isn't even covered either as they and others won't take insurance because of privacy issues that other agencies/employers can get ahold of and violates the client's privacy.

Last edited by ladytiger; Jan 11, 2015 at 09:15 PM.