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Old Jan 11, 2015, 09:21 PM
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If someone is saying these things after a couple of dates, they are just being a bit rude about not being interested,
I was able to read guy's personalities within a couple of dates & there were many at that point that I didn't want to have anything more to do with. The question, is it better to be honest about what you see & feel? or do you want it sugar coated so you don't really know why they aren't interested?

Yes, some people don't have a problem with drama or an intense person....but there are some who have a problem with it later on because they aren't as aware of their feelings.

The real question is....that what you want your life to be like?.....only you can determine that & if not, only you can make the changes.

Most people want a quiet non-dramatic relationship.....I know that 33 years of fighting with my H & all the drama that ended up because of his personality.....it was hell by the time I left. Last 13 years I was trapped in the marriage because of financial issues.......not a good place to be & it effected me very negatively to the point of suicide attempts
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