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Originally Posted by lozza89
Thank you for replying. Lauren is the host, I am the protector or at least I try to be! I don't think Lauren wants help anymore, I can feel how exhausted she is from trying to fight Ella and him every day. I will try and ask Lauren what she wants her GP to know but her GP doesn't really know about us all so I don't want her to become confused. Ella and him are usually the parts that want everyone dead but now now Ella has convinced Lauren that it really would be for the best because even though he doesn't hurt the littles Lizzie and Kaylee he hurts the rest of us badly. He almost succeeded not long ago but Lizzie was so brave and stopped him and got us to the hospital. Ella is a nice girl she really is, she just gets really scared and frightened and she doesn't want Lauren or any of us to be hurt anymore or be in pain. She only sees freedom in death. He isn't nice though he is very bad and I cannot control him at all. He comes out so fast and only Lizzie is able to come out then because he will never hurt a good little girl like her.
Elisa.
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Does he talk to your therapist? All my parts exist for a reason. Sometimes the reason they were created doesn't exist in the present so what they think is a good idea, usually isn't. Most of my parts are still in trauma time. They don't know that the abuse is in the past. They act out as though the abuse still exists. I am not sure when or how I will be able to show them that the abuse is done and we are presently safe. I talk to some of the fearful ones and explain that the bad stuff doesn't happen anymore. It has helped. But some of the parts that have been with me sense I was little don't seem to understand what I am saying. I think that is because they don't know that we are grown. I guess I am trying to say talking to my parts has helped some to stop hurting us. Letting them know that that behavior isn't helpful. Does he talk to anyone in your system?