Agree with Pegasus, there is a reason you are asking. Don't worry so much about "normal", it isn't necessarily a "good" tag. Don't be afraid, if you think you are ok and others do not, do take this to a professional to sort out. Consider it a learning experience, an exploration...if you are ok it will not distress you-----if you need help, and we all do sometimes, it will be a relief to let go of the "normal" ID.