I am sorry you are feeling this way Tomi. I do too feel this way.

There is one thing you haven't said in this post that I do feel in here and I think you feel it too but you didn't mentionned it. So I'm going to say it. The worst thing for me here is finding myself stucked between 2 members. This puts a lot of pressure on my shoulders and I don't need that pressure. So not wanting to hurt one or the other I will chose to back off from the site enterelly. Nobody should do this to another member here. Nobody should put another member in the position of being in the middle. Respect should also be active behind the scene.

I hope you don't take this in a negative way Tomi. Really, I'm just trying to help you. I know often I do not have the right words to say what I mean.

Take good care of yourself.