I agree with Trippin..... although couple's counselling may sound appealing to try and help repair things... is it really going to help when the problem is the fact that he is paranoid about you and doesn't allow you to share your thoughts and feelings?
I hope that the counsellor will be able to pick up on that quickly on their own so that they can make it a focus. Because if you bring it up he will likely turn it around to say that you're trying to 'poison' the counsellor's thoughts about him and to turn the counsellor against him... or something equally false.
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