hey friend, i too deal with intrusive thoughts and they're no fun. a lot of people say intrusive thoughts target the things we care most about, so i know it can make things seem especially bad when you can't stop worrying about saying inappropriate things around people you care about, but i at least take comfort in the fact that all the worry shows just how much i care about them
i hope this made sense
you'd probably have luck in the OCD forum because intrusive thoughts are a big part of it (though i know yours seem to be from coming off the klonopin but it could be good to hear about people struggling with similar thoughts)
i hope you're doing okay