ladytiger, I haven'tused a life coach but I have contemplated becoming one in the past! So I researched it a bit... You might want to find someone who has had experience with at least some of your issues, there are coaches who specialize in ADD/organizing etc.

I chose my current therapist cause she advertised herself as a coach too... And another psychologist I've seen occasionally was more like a coach too...
So this is another option, to see someone who is both a therapist and a coach... if you might need that

Honestly I've found more good ideas and help/support online or in books sometimes, but sometimes it's good to have a helpful someone at your side in RL to sympathize or such too... (most things my psychologists/coaches presented I knew already and have tried in the past, eg making a schedule etc)