The pot lost him his job and now he is too sick to work. He only sits at the computer and chars with others. He even told me he may be in love with one of them. He says he still loves me but it hurts so bad that he could think of another woman the same way as me. I think he likes to live in this pretend world were no one has to know how sick he is. And I want to understand but I need him to live I the real world too.