WrkNPrgress, the thing to remember is that passive-aggressive behavior is at it's core aggressive behavior. I was married to a master of passive-aggressive behavior. It wears a person down, which is the whole point. Things are not "too small" if they hurt you.
You asked how to address the problem in couples counseling. What if you mentioned that you'd noticed a trend in the way you communicate and ask if it can be discussed?
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