Hi Ipse Dixit (cool screen name by the way!) you are definitely not alone with these feelings of attachment and being "in love" with your therapist... and i can totally understand that it can create major anxiety at times... but i think, and as others have said, that is a big part of what therapy is about...

i know only too well how very hard those feelings are to handle sometimes, but in my opinion (for what its worth) there is nothing more powerful than being in love and IF that power can be channelled into something positive there is real chance of change...

i hope you are able to hang in there with your therapist and talk more about this stuff with her...

take care and know for sure that you are not alone

best wishes Nikki