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Originally Posted by Mefisto
Thanks for help, everyone.
Appreciate your post, but it made me sad. The only girl i had in life used me for manipulation and she never did such stuff as you do with your boyfriend. Im also very pale as you. I don't think i will ever have relationship with girl who will like me with such long list of insecurities. My life is so insecure, sad and lonely.
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I've been struggling a long time too but for the last month I've been saying three good things about myself in front of the mirror (yes sometimes I am standing there a rather long time until I think of something) and then one goal (they are only small goals but that sense of achievement is nice) for example; today I will do a workout, today I will say or do something nice for 5 people, etc. I've noticed a MASSIVE difference just in one month. Well it's massive to me
I'm still not the confident person I want to be but I am starting to feel better about myself. Personality is a huge part of being attracted to someone
Keep at it!!