can you get a different GP? or maybe someone at ARC or another autism advocate awareness type foundation would enlighten him? he sounds very misinformed. aspergers is often over looked until the the teen years and a lot of people who are adults arent diagnosed because that diagnosis wasnt something known much about until the early 90's and even a year or two ago, the dsm changed the criteria some. i hope you can get some help and some solutions soon!

theres no way he could know that you arent. his opinion is based on what his beliefs are, and what he believes those people in your life should be like. in reality, theres no way he can be a mind reader and intpret everything and from everyone that has ever been in your life..

so i wouldnt give up.