I'm so sorry you've been hurt

I suffered quite a bit leaving T1. Starting over again with T2 was a big adjustment. My advice is to talk to as many as you can, and select the person that you have the best personality fit with. It takes a while to feel safe again, but if you can find the right match you'll get there.

I have to ask - is therapy a real need for you at this point? I started a post a few weeks ago about whether or not I'd do therapy again, and right now if I could stop safely I think I would. I think there's more than one way to heal.