Yes, me! I hadn't worked out the avoidant attachment stuff before my t pointed it out, I just knew that things have been much better for me as an adult when I am away from family.

I have been with my h for billions of years ( well, 22), and, when I thought about my insecure attachment issues, and all the fall out that that has brought, I also realised that I now have a secure attachment to my h, and that the support and security that that has given me has been immensely healing. And now I can explore my relationship with my FOB in therapy, it's been so helpful. Xxx