I think part of my problem was that my mother had very low tolerance for my work in progress. She would just SCREAM at me to put stuff away immediately. I was watching one of those home shows recently, and this architect was fixing up his own house, and he was taking FOREVER to do it. He would start remodeling a room, change his mind, and just leave it!! It made me feel a lot better about what i do. We OBVIOUSLY have the vision of an architect, eskie!!