sometimes we just have to get it all out and that is what this site is about. being overwhelmed and stressed doesnt make us a failure. we all have limits. just yesterday i reached mine and started crying at work and decided it was time to go home. i just couldnt do it anymore. this doesnt make me feel like a failure though. i just could only do so much and i was done. i cant expect more of myself than i have got. im mentally ill. im not going to measure up to the grand standards that i want for myself and i think i have accepted that finally. i can go on wishing it isnt so but that is a waste of time and energy. so i have to learn to work with what i have got. that is knowing my limitations and working within them and doing the best job possible in those limits. and for that i feel good. take care.