Yup, most of the dudes I know who were slaying it in high school are still living with their moms (who I'm sure are very sweet ladies, but dudes, we're in our mid-twenties).

The guys who buckled down and treated everyone with respect and grew at their own pace while allowing others to do the same are all in loving, positive relationships right now.

I was the same way at your age and you're handling it much better than I did.