It's been about 2 weeks. I tried to distance myself after I left and moved back to my hometown, but I caved when I found out I needed her help to change an account number. After I got through with fixing it, I attempted to reestablish the being away, but she said "Why haven't you been talking to me?" to which I said "Just busy." After that she started talking about the kids which I couldn't stand to ignore as I love them as well. So we've been talking quite a bit and I fear that because of this, I have soiled any chance I had of getting her back.