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Originally Posted by Loutrem
yesterday again my friends made fun of me.. of my drawings. they wrote stuff like "it's ugly!" on a table where i drew some stuff at school in art class. at first i didn't know it was them, so i passed two hours of art class wanting to punch the person who wrote these stuff because i was so angry, but i also wanted to die, because it was so embarassing and it made me sad. and when i knew it was them i was even more angry but i couldn't let them know. they said "come on, it's a joke, don't take this seriously" ok lol but the fact is that i did and now im angry
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Hi Loutrem,
I very much agree with Thunder Bow that this is bullying. There is a very horrible but strong instinct in both people and animals to attack anyone who shows weakness or fear. I know it's very upsetting, and their behavior is repulsive, but the very object of your strong, justified emotions may be misdirecting you away from what I suspect is the essential problem. I think you're having compulsive feelings of fear and anger and sadness caused by the underlying process explained in my previous link.
What I mean is, I don't think you have to pay much attention to the bullying (other than practical steps if things get out of hand). It's not important. What's important is getting yourself un-depressed. I think if you can manage to do that, I believe that other problems will disappear.
- vital